If you’re not OK with your current partner’s contact with an ex, say so.Your partner and his or her ex should be willing to take a break from each other while you two concentrate on what you have together.
Here are 10 signs that it may be time to bring it up.
We all compare our current romance to ones we’ve had in the past, and an occasional reference to an old steady is no cause for alarm.
“But," says marriage and family therapist Joan Sherman, "if it’s happening 24-seven, it’s a problem.
It’s going to keep both of you from enjoying the new relationship.” Sherman says if you're hearing every detail and story about the former relationship, it’s probably a sign that your partner hasn’t moved on.
It doesn’t have to be a permanent break, but it is the respectful thing to do. During orgasm, the mind is totally uninhibited, making it easier for someone else’s name to slip out, Gray says.