And most of the time we’re filled with fears about things that would never happen and will never happen… It’s very important that you ask yourself questions that empower you. 🙂 I’m being a little silly with how I’m saying this, but if all these things are in place, you’re pretty much his girlfriend. Now, this is something countless women have brought up and will continue to bring up. I can tell you this, both from personal experience and from hearing from tons of other men: The best way to determine the woman to be with is to see how she reacts when you don’t give her what she wants. Sure, it’s easy to be with a woman when she’s happy and when you’re doing everything she wants.
Nobody can do that for you, you have to make the decision to do that and take that responsibility. But that’s not always possible – every man knows that sooner or later the woman is going to be unhappy with something he said or did.
I think it might help me see if he’s only in it for sex, but I’m not sure.
Here are my immediate thoughts: First, be very careful about using the words “just” or “only” when it comes to relationships or sex. That’s not to say that every man’s reason is beyond superficial or is “good” for the other person.
As Shakespeare understood so well, the spirits come alive on this special, magical night.