But 99% of the time, if he likes you, he’s going to listen to you, and remember the things you tell him. You say to him, “I saw my friend Steve last night.” Do his ears perk up? And unless he’s the suavest man on the planet – he’s going to reveal he cares (even if he just makes a joke) about what you did with “Steve.” Guys are hardwired to pick up on competition. That’s why if you can’t get a guy to care about something, the best way to get him hooked is to make it into a competition. Bet him that you can clean the dishes faster than he can.
He’s going to want clues about what you’re really about – both so that he can get to know you better and also so that he can make himself more attractive to you.
And all that starts with getting to know you, which starts with being curious about your life. He’ll want to know more about you – and he’ll when you tell him about yourself.
funnily enough – also in 11th grade.) The truth is – most of our days are forgettable.
They’re not good, they’re not bad, they just kind of happen, and then fall by the wayside. Since it has a limited capacity for memory (unless you’ve got an That’s actually a nice trick to discover what people are really interested in deep down.
This is a sign that I see all the time in relationships that are headed for trouble.